The following is all documented by court recorded testimony or deposition. The truth and accuracy can be verified by anyone. Many of the statements made below are also supported by social media of Tana Lacy. In September of 2011, my husband attended addiction recovery. My husband stated he did not want a divorce. My husband had a desire to finally overcome a pornography and sex addiction he had been struggling with his entire life. My husband had a previous affair and promised he would never repeat that same mistake again. During recovery there was a period of abstinence that left my husband vulnerable to an attack by a chronic mistress. Tana Lacy’s relentless pursuit of my husband during his recovery has harmed me, my husband and our children leaving us in excessive debt. Tragically, my husband was introduced to chronic mistress Tana Lacy at a bar in October 2011. My husband then stopped attending addiction recovery. My husband tried to break off the affair in February 2012. However, the marriage predator Tana Lacy was relentless. Tana Lacy continued to have contact with my husband manipulating him and taking advantage of him while in addiction recovery. Tana Lacy admits in open court she has received my marital assets in the form of vacations to San Francisco, Portland, day trips to coastal beach houses, Hilton hotel accommodations, fine dining, car maintenance, jewelry, cell phone equipment, flowers, books, chocolates and other gifts. Tana Lacy admits to taking over 100 vacations from my husband in less than five years. In October 2014, Tana Lacy insisted my husband shop for our daughter at the Goodwill while during that same month she took thousands of martial assets. Tana Lacy’s previous affair child and parents also have taken marital assets in the form of fine dining and gifts. Tana Lacy admitted that she was aware my husband never provided any of these things for me or our children. Tana Lacy’s very large appearance is further evidence she has been well fed and dressed in clothes from the ‘Fit for a Queen’ clothing boutique store. Over the course of the five year affair thousands of dollars of martial assets have been disposed by Tana Lacy. My husband never returned to addiction recovery. Tana Lacy insisted that my husband divorce me so she could remarry him. Tana Lacy’s demands for remarriage cost my husband and I thousands of dollars more on litigation fees.
My husband and I are in excessive debt for life due to the evil and selfish attack on our marriage and family by Tana Lacy. An affair makes a parent unavailable to children. At the time of Tana Lacy’s attack, my sons were at an age when time with their father was vital in their development. Tana Lacy’s demand of my husband’s time left my children unattended by him to start fires, become addicted to pornography, prematurely sexually active, drink alcohol, smoke marijuana and cigarettes, expulsion from school, skipping school, failing school and dropping out of school. Both of my children got in trouble with the law. My oldest son was assaulted and suffered facial injuries. My other son overdosed on drugs and was brought to the hospital by ambulance. My husband was unaware of both of these events when they occurred because he was with Tana Lacy. My children we’re denied counseling and follow-up medical care. My children’s lives have been completely destroyed by Tana Lacy. The time and money that should have been spent on and with my children was stolen by Tana Lacy. My adult children today still use drugs and didn’t graduate from high school. Both of my adult children suffer from depression from watching their father give everything our family has to Tana Lacy. My son can’t understand why Tana Lacy cannot buy all of these things for herself. Three counselors testified during trial that my children’s acting out behavior is a result of being exposed to my husband having an affair with Tana Lacy. My youngest child is so traumatized by Tana Lacy that five years later my daughter still requests we pretend Tana Lacy is dead. My daughter comes home from visiting father exhausted from pretending to be polite to Tana Lacy. My daughter is afraid of being punishment by my husband if she tells the truth.
A counselor informed my husband years ago that my youngest child has suffered emotional distress from being exposed to Tana Lacy. My daughter at one point threatened to cut herself because the emotional pain caused by Tana Lacy was so deep. My daughter nearly failed the 5th grade, daydreams in class, can’t focus or sleep alone at night. Tana Lacy forces my daughter to perform her job cleaning offices instead of allowing my daughter to attend school and church events. Tana Lacy still forces herself on my child causing my child further distress. Tana Lacy cornered my 11 year old daughter in a bathroom and performed a strip search to check her genital area. Instead of contacting me to care for my child’s needs, Tana Lacy humiliated my daughter. Any wife or mother watching her husband and children deteriorate under the attack of a marriage predator would be harmed. Since Tana Lacy attacked my marriage and family, I have had two breast tumors removed, adrenal failure, and multiple anxiety attacks to the point that I am not disabled with PTSD. It is really shocking that Tana Lacy can do so much financial, mental, emotional and physical damage to adults and innocent children. The purpose of my post is to warn other wives and mothers to protect their marriages and children from Tana Lacy. Addicted to the ‘affair high’ Tana Lacy will continue to seek out married men for the challenge in order to validate her low self esteem. Tana Lacy attended the same church my husband and I attended.
I was naive to believe my husband was safe around single women like Tana Lacy. I wish somebody would have warned me about this marriage predator. I had no idea Tana Lacy had an affair with a previous man and a child conceived with a married man. I had no idea Tana Lacy had been rejected by all single men and was desperate to find a married man to take care of her. I had no idea Tana Lacy was very skilled with the ability to psychologically control married men. Under deposition, people listening to Tana Lacy speak were terrified of this woman. Tana Lacy’s appearance is repulsive and she compensates with tactics that resemble an Alfred Hitchcock movie. Tana Lacy plays on my husband’s low self esteem and depression. Tana Lacy lies to my husband to get what she wants from him. My husband cannot and does not know how to tell Satan’s angel ‘no.’ Destroying a man’s marriage, wife, children and putting him in excessive debt for life is not love; it is murder with a prison sentence. Even more frightening is the men being controlled by Tana Lacy have no idea they have lost everything. My husband and I have no home, no retirement and are in our mid-forties. It is unlikely I will be able to work again due to my disability caused by Tana Lacy. My husband will be forced to provide for me and two households the rest of his life. My husband has no hope of retiring because of Tana Lacy. My husband will work the rest of his life to support a mistress and me.