Refel Rushing, Ralph Rushing has a Shadow side that will devastate any woman that falls in love with him. I was one of those women. This man is a serial cheater and a serial liar. Ladies beware! My motivation for writing this is to alert women who thinks they will have a meaningful relationship with this man. You will be deceived. He did it to me and all the women in his past so covertly that it took me until the first huge RED FLAG to wake up and smell the testosterone.